She played blackjack almost exclusively, often risking thousands of dollars each round—then scrounging under her car seat for 35 cents to pay the toll on the way home. This compared to an average of 2. To get you started, be sure to check out our top tips for beginners. Ironically, I run a program for drug and alcohol addiction treatment! A diagnostic term in the fifth edition of the Diagnostic and Statistical Manual of Mental Disorders DSM-5 referring to recurrent use of alcohol or other drugs that causes clinically and functionally significant impairment, such as health problems, disability, and failure to meet major responsibilities at work, school, or home.
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He turns it around when confronted and blames me then shuts down ALL communication forms after saying the relationship isn't working out. He is mid 40's and has had no successful relationship thus far in his life. I'm curious if anyone here has had experience and would be comfortable sharing their eperience with gambling issues combined with lying since I feel like the gambling is the driver for what he is trying to hide. Hello, I am sorry I don't have any advice for you but am writing to let you know you are not alone.
My partner lies about money too. He has gambled for his whole life. His last marriage failed and now tbh I can see it probably wasn't all because the wife wasn't nice.
I've been with him 5 years and from what he says I am the love of his life Been made to feel like I am going mad. The stress and torment and confusion over why have been awful. I am on this site because I too don't know where to turn. Its hard as you don't want to tell anyone of your friends or family whats going on as you don't want to let them know what they are really like, we protect them.
So I keep it in. I keep in his lies. He's getting up now so will go. Be strong hun, I hope it works out. Sadly I feel like its a lose lose situation for me. You both need to get out of these relationshits. I don't buy that. Cancer is a disease. It's all a form of self-medication and in order to procure said addictions one must lie. They lie to themselves and to those that love them. Flax said he had an illegal gambling business that ran poker games in Wichita and the surrounding area for a number of years.
Flax has pleaded guilty to operating an illegal gambling operation. He testified as part of his plea agreement. Flax said his partnership with Johnny Steven in the illegal enterprise began probably four to five years ago, first with a poker game in a Hutchinson hotel.
Then it moved to a hotel by the Waterwalk on Kellogg near downtown Wichita. Douglas, near Washington, in the Old Town entertainment district. Then — after an undercover officer showed up as part of the investigation in February — to a room behind a bar in a small strip center in the block of East Kellogg. In each of the four locations, Flax said, he was in partnership with Johnny Steven. At the East Douglas spot, they had two dealers, who got a percentage.
The waitresses got tips. The cook got cash. There were games generally on the same night almost every week of the year. Players had to be invited. The list of people to invite grew over the years. The security staff made sure the door remained locked. It made the players feel more comfortable, he said. If the Wednesday night games ran late, there were beds.
One night at the Douglas spot, Flax said, they suspected an undercover officer among the people at one table. The suspected undercover officer had a cellphone camera out and was making players uncomfortable. Flax said he texted the other players one by one to cash out their chips and leave early that night.
The undercover scare caused the operation to move, he said. Some of the security officers were former cops. The existence of the investigation became known publicly around Feb. The investigation had also involved wiretaps in The FBI targeted five individuals whose electronic communications were intercepted. Another FBI agent viewed video taken at one of the games with task force members; some were with the Highway Patrol, and they immediately recognized Frederiksen, Ross said.
The investigation included electronic records of 20 to 50 people. It involved phone calls and texts. Johnny Steven was his Allstate insurance agent, he told the investigators. He said Johnny Steven invited him to poker games, Ross recalled. At the trial, the federal prosecutors set up in front of jurors posters with close-up photos of Frederiksen and Johnny Steven with a list of instances of texts between them. Investigators were concerned for the safety of the undercover officer if he was identified and worried how that might affect the investigation.
The undercover officer had gone to the East Douglas game on Feb. The federal probe has focused on what Ross termed an illegal gambling business, where there are multiple players, money is exchanged and staff hired.
In the witness chair, Ross repeated that the federal investigation continues.